For people that know me, they will know I love shoes, and usually with heels, the higher the better ... those tend to be the shoes I walk in (and sometimes totter, too). What brings me to my thoughts this weekend is that I've been reading a book by Charlotte Gambil-Scanlon called In Her Shoes, and I tell you what this lady out does any male preacher I've come across. I saw her in action at the Sistas conference and she is really gifted.
Anyway, I have reflected on some of the things from her book, because as a career counsellor (or even as me in a non-professional context) I have been guilty of doing all those things she says in her book not to do. So today's art journaling is also like my counselling reflective journal where I reflect on my day's clients (usually 9.30 at night my days are long!) and look at a quick snap shot of their context and where to go from there.
So on with the art journaling, just painted a few strokes of acrylics paints and then added images of ... yes shoes ... and also card cut out shoes .... then I just jotted down some of those reflections that had meaning to me.
If you can't read the pages they are here:
- Listen to people's stories – engage in their world and suspend judgement – or better still don't judge. To truly understand someone you have to take the time to dig deeper and go into their world.
- Give more of my time to them.
We think that to win people over we have to impress them, or have all the right answers to the questions they ask. All people want is for someone to stop and care enough to give them the precious commodity of our time. - Be committed to love people – don't chastise or judge their lifestyles. Measure my words carefully and speak into their life redemptively.
- Decide to connect with people.
Adjust my focus away from my own life, and focus onto others. It means slow down. Don't be so caught up in my own journey, that I fail to engage others on my way. - Don't see people as an inconvenience or a nuisance.
See people as a sea of opportunity and need. - Don't make or put assumptions on people.
Every person has background scenery (their context) and I can't understand it clearly until I walk in their shoes.
Moral rights of integrity attributed to the author: Charlotte Gambil-Scanlon.
"Walk in their Shoes" --- message to self.
Now I no longer own a scrapbook shop I don't like pimping products, but if anyone is interested in that book here it is:
And that IS Charlotte on the cover, 2009,
If anyone is interested here is her link: Charlotte Gambil-Scanlon.






